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As a woman with immense stage fright, it was especially challenging for Bee Xiong to overcome her fears and cohost the Hmong Community Fellowship Banquet at UW-Eau Claire last March.
"They felt that I would be a great representative, however I have extreme stage fright and did not want to do it," Xiong said. "I don't think they knew that I was a different person on stage versus off stage."
Xiong initially declined the offer to host the event, even though she believed in the dinner's theme, "Hmong: Beyond Refugees," and felt that as UW-Eau Claire's Hmong Student Association vice president she had a lot to offer. But she eventually agreed to co-host the banquet.
"I was extremely nervous, but it turned out to be great," Xiong said. "I met a lot of very interesting people from the community."
Xiong also is proud of progress that was made during her involvement with the Hmong Student Association. Because of a threatening incident that happened at one of the organization's events about 10 years ago, restrictions had been placed on HSA events, including the enforcement of a dress code, the use of metal detectors and the presence of uniformed police officers. Last year a series of meetings between HSA representatives and the University Police resulted in the restrictions being lifted for the first time at the group's annual spring dance.
Future plans: I am in the process of applying to attend graduate school at UW-Milwaukee next fall for my master's of social work degree. I would also like to get certified in marriage and family counseling. Meanwhile, I plan to relocate to Milwaukee and get some work experience. I want to work with disadvantaged ethnic minority groups, particularly women and children. I also want to work with individuals with behavioral health problems in a medical setting.
What she liked most about her time at UW-Eau Claire: I liked and appreciated all the opportunities and services provided at UW-Eau Claire, including clubs and organizations, study abroad programs, academic skills help, an amazing library, the Artists Series, theater, art and music, diagnostic testing, service-learning, plus many more.
Highlights of life at UW-Eau Claire: I enjoyed studying abroad in Lancaster, England, in spring 2004. I had a few wonderful years being involved with the Hmong Student Association. I also enjoyed playing intramural volleyball during many semesters.
Proudest college accomplishments: The first was helping to improve the security situation at Hmong Student Association events. For many years now, HSA has had many "security" restrictions put on it due to a threatening incident that occurred at one of its events about 10 years ago. Many HSA students and university personnel tried for years to fight this. Finally, last year, following a series of meetings between HSA representatives and the University Police, HSA's annual spring dance was the first event in a very long time to be without a dress code, metal detectors and full uniformed police officers at the entrance. That was a proud moment for HSA, as well as for me. My other proud moment was cohosting the Hmong Community Fellowship Banquet last year. I met a lot of very interesting and wonderful people from the community. On a more on a personal level, however, it was a moment that made me especially proud of myself.
Advice for incoming students: My advice for success to incoming students is to find a balance between your physical, emotional, mental and spiritual being. It's easier said than done and it may take all the years at UW-Eau Claire or longer. But to be clear, success is subjective and depends on your own definition. Having said that, I believe that success comes when a person is satisfied with the balance in his or her life.
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