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Do…
Share something personal about what God has done in your lifePeople enjoy
testimonies because it is an opportunity for them to for them to hear from
a peer that they can relate to. Often,
the more personal and honest you are, the more people can relate and be
touched. Be specific.
Use one or two verses from scriptureUsing scripture
will help you focus on Jesus as you speak, and will ensure that the words
you are saying are as much God’s as they are yours. However, too much scripture will confuse people and the most
relevant scripture you use will be lost.
Stick
to the time frame (3-5 minutes)
While
God does not work in a time frame, the people you are talking to do. Knowing that worship, the speaker, and often announcements are
still to come, most people get antsy after 5 minutes. An antsy audience is not a receptive audience. Keep in mind that time flies when you are up front, and be as
brief as you can.
Find out the topic of the meeting
and relate your testimony to it
Often the reason
you are up front is because you have something to share that is relevant
to that night’s topic. See
if you can relate what you are saying to whatever that is. If the speaker later refers back to your testimony, you know
you’ve done a good job in this area.
Leave them with a challenge
People
need, and want, to be challenged. Nothing
is more effective in this area than a person with a story of personal
triumph. Use your story to
ask them to make a commitment in their life to change.
Prepare
Nothing
is worse than to start by saying “Well, I haven’t thought about what I
was going to say, but I guess I’ll just start…” People will shut off
right away. You won’t say
what you wanted to say, it’ll go long, it may be irrelevant, and few
people will be changed. Be
prepared.
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Don’t…
Use Christian lingo that
non-Christians won’t understand
Avoid words that
new or non-Christians will be confused by. Another great part of your testimony is letting non-Christians see
that the Christian life is applicable, that it’s real. Confusing them with jargon will convince them otherwise.
Put any person or group of people
down
Nothing shuts an
audience off faster than ripping on them or a group they are a part of. Be careful to speak gracefully, showing people that they are loved
by God and by the chapter.
Share your testimony for the wrong
reasons
If the reason
you want to share is one of pride, you should not be up front. Also, do not share personal trials and tests for shock value alone. You are up front for others, not yourself. Make sure pride has nothing to do with it.
Be
fake or put on an act
People want to
hear the truth, and they want to know what you have really gone through. The most effective thing you can be up front is yourself. If you are fake people will see right through it. You have an important story to tell, and people want to hear it!
Forget to use this opportunity to
invite friends
This is perhaps
the best time to invite friends, roommates, or co-workers that would never
come to IV unless they knew you were speaking and got a personal
invitation from you. Don’t let this great opportunity go by without inviting
someone!
Forget
to pray
Saturate your
time up front with prayer. Pray
that you say exactly what God wants you to say. Pray that people are attentive to what you are saying. And pray that people are changed by what they hear and the
challenge they are presented with. Pray,
and expect amazing things to happen through your testimony!
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